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How Your Kid Can Get Damaged

June 22, 2019



Children who grow up in a violent household are severely damaged by emotional abuse, verbal abuse or psychological abuse. Children who have suffered neglect have smaller brains than that of children in normal households. This gives many new parents cause for concern. https://nypost.com/2017/11/02/brain-scans-reveal-how-badly-emotional-abuse-damages-kids/. There are good definitions available as to what constitutes emotional abuse. Emotional abuse is defined as any act including confinement, isolation, verbal assault, humiliation, intimidation, infantilization, or any other treatment which may diminish” a sense of identity, dignity and self-worth. https://www.healthyplace.com/abuse/emotional-psychological-abuse/emotional-abuse-definitions-signs-symptoms-examples. People who have been emotionally abused have low self-esteem.

They also show personality changes like being withdrawn, while they may even become depressed, anxious or suicidal. When somebody says something mean, it can trigger anybody into suicide. Some people are skilled at being an asshole. They love saying mean things to people. Yet, I can also be quite mean at times, and say mean things back to them to get them to shut up. So if someone tries to shame you, the best response is to get at their shame complex. In someone psychic like me, this is something I can do easily. I can put anybody on the spot.

Emotional abuse can be name-calling, or insults. Mocking somebody openly is also abusive. Making threats or intimidating someone counts as emotional abuse. To the person who almost ran me over on Cahalan and the intersection for Blossom Hill, thanks because you deserved the shit I gave you. I stopped, I looked you in the eye, and I was asking you with my thoughts why the hell you were getting in my way when it was my light? Don’t deny that was abusive to do to a disabled person. Yes, you may get into victim blaming if you want to.

Abusers apologize during the cycle of abuse but then it starts up again. Abusers make people fear they are not going to get the care they need. Abusers socially isolate people by not allowing people to visit. They also withhold important information. Like I don’t know, my hernia, gee. Oh rapture. Real people do not abuse someone. They try to respect them. Projection has been a huge part of my life for a very long time. It means that somebody has something in themselves that they do not like, so they criticize somebody who actually doesn’t have that trait at all, and make them feel like shit for having it. So yes, I’m a free woman these days in more ways than one. The Ex is the Ex. Say no more. My family lives in another Spanish-speaking country. I have a charmed life because I get to go to bed at 8. My Facebook friends, refer to this blog.

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