Frenemies I’ve Had to Dump

I have dumped those who show an inability to care for themselves by taking their medication. She who lectured me about skipped doses when I skipped in college on vacation, where I learned that vacations do not mean skipping meds. My friends should be women who can stand up for themselves. I have had to dump those who expect me to do the work for them. This gets to ridiculous levels with some people so for my mental health I dumped them. I cannot listen too much to dark things, because that overburdens my energy. I cannot heal someone all the time either since it becomes their adult responsibility. If someone is medication consistent, they are stable and they cut the crap but if someone doesn’t know if they’ve taken their meds or not, this means they are unstable.